Thursday, March 27, 2008

Joy In Life



This is the true Joy in life.
Being used for purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one.
Being a force of nature instead of a feverish, little clod of ailments.
Complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy.
I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the whole community.
And as I live it is my privilege...
My privilege to do it for whatever I can.
I want to be thoroughly used up when I die,
for the harder I work, the more I love.
I rejoice in life for its own sake.
Life is no brief candle to me, it is a sort of splendid torch which
I have a hold of for the moment.
And I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before
handing it on to future generations.
~George Bernard Shaw
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Friday, March 21, 2008

Spinning Straw Into Gold


I bet you have forgotten about the fairy tale that this phrase comes from? I certainly had until it came to me this morning! I always thought that fairy tales really did not have much merit, but if they don't, how have they been around all these years! The reason this came to me is because I was thinking about the events of our life that shape us into who we are or put us on a different path than we might have otherwise taken. The straw of our lives... how does that turn into gold?

It seems that has been a question for a long time. A long, long time ago, before fairy tales, there was a process called alchemy. It is the process of turning a base metal into gold. The word also has two additional meanings; transforming something ordinary into something special and/or, an inexplicable or mysterious change. That is really what I am talking about here...when has that happened for you...something extraordinary has happened that defied what should have happened? What event, relationship, or situation was a transforming moment that helped to shape you you are today?
This has been a life long passion for me. Since I was a small child I was fascinated by the lives of extraordinary people and how they took the events of their lives and used them to guide their path in life. As I became an adult I realized that as a child I thought those people only lived in books or on T.V., I did not realize then, that we all have times in our life when the ordinary has been turned into the extraordinary or we have beat the odds.
At our staff meeting this week I asked these questions and then sat back to listen. With every story I was so inspired by the personal moments of extraordinary guidance and transformation. I was in awe of how straw turned into gold and how the universe conspires to help turn something that seemed like adversity into a blessing.
So...I would like to ask you...Where are the places in your life that straw has turned into gold for you? What is one thing that was a transforming event for you? or Where has something in your life defied the odds? As I go back to those places in my own life or have the privilege of hearing someone story, I find it is a place of Spirit and can feel the sacredness at what has transpired because of it.
I would love to hear from you if you care to share your own expereince. You can post a comment on this blog or send an email to http://www.inpeaceandjoy@msn.com
Peace and Joy,
Sandy
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Sunday, March 16, 2008

The Spirit of Bagger Vance


One of my favorite movies of all time is, The Legend of Bagger Vance. The movie has been around a while, but it has a wonderful message about finding your inner spirit and using it to guide your life. The story itself is about three famous golfers from the 1940's who are playing in a tournament in Savannah, Georgia. One of the golfers, Randolf Juneau, has just returned from the war where his whole platoon perished and he was the only survivor. He returned home feeling like he had lost his spirit, his inner compass. Before going to war, he had been a world class golfer and was finally convinced to be the third golfer for this tournament. He agreed under much protest as he had lost his will to live much less to play golf. But he had agreed, a promise was a promise. He found his clubs, hit a few balls and seriously questioned his decision. It was then that someone named Bagger Vance appeared out of nowhere and agreed to be his caddy. Along the way he offers him a lot of advice but not really about golf.
At first his advice is about overcoming his obstacles and at one crucial juncture where the course got hard and it looked like the shot was impossible, Bagger said, you will have to choose...Everyone has one true purpose and you will have to choose to align yourself with that purpose if you intend to play this game. His advice to Juneau all along had been about going inside to find his center and allow that to guide him, but the game is was talking about was life itself.
That is why this is such a great movie, because this is good advice for us too. Our life is not much different,we all have obstacles to get over. There are times when things get hard and it is difficult to see our way. We all need to find our center; that place where spirit resides and we can access the wisdom that is waiting for us. I like to think this is the place to live life from...a place of integrity, compassion and love. To live from this place you have to choose just like the advice Bagger gave;to align yourself with your inner most self and there you will find your purpose.
In the movie, Juneau comes to a place in the tournament where he has to choose to tell the truth even though it might mean he will lose this tournament. His golf ball moved ever slightly and to tell the truth he had to call a penalty on himself. That same thing happens to us every day...something happens and we have to decide if we will honor our spirits and what we know or let it slip by. Even his opponents in the golf game wanted to let it slide but he said, " I will know and so will you. " Every time we let something slip by, we chip away at our spirit and soon we find that we too have lost touch with the very thing that acts as our compass and guides our way.
Events in life continually ask us to live out what we believe. We are beckoned to find our center, embrace our spirits and live in alighment with that. That is why I have chosen a picture of a labyrinth. It is a tool by which we can find our center and reside there for a bit. There are many places where you can walk a labyrinth but you can also get personal ones you can trace with your finger. I have added two links where you can get information on labyrinth's and print off one to use. It does not matter how you decide to do it just that you do it. Consider this an invitation to find find some quiet time, light a candle and trace your spirit back to your center and allow it to guide your life.
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Blessings,
Sandy

Sunday, March 9, 2008

The Spirit Within



I carry you within me,
just as you carry me.
You who console and comfort,
inspire and instruct,
shelter and shape my soul.
More than a refuge,
you are a complex community,
living in me as I live in you.
If I look I will see you,
If I listen I will hear.
You call me to live.
You call me home.
I want to answer.
This poem found me a few days ago and begged to be shared. It came from a book called Earth's Echo, a book of sacred encounters. Today find a sacred space to come home to spirit...it is what we are all longing for.
Sandy

Saturday, March 1, 2008

A Day of Grace


A Day of Grace
Oh, God, give me grace for this day.
Not for a lifetime, nor for this week, nor
for tomorrow, just for this day.
Direct my thoughts and guide them.
Direct my work and bless it.
Direct the things I say and give them blessing too.
Direct and bless everything I think and speak
and do. So that for this one day, just this one day,
I have the gift of grace that comes from your presence...
~Marjorie Holmes
Yesterday, this poem found me and I wanted to share it with you. I have decided its beauty comes in its simplicity...grace, it is pure and simple and a gift for all of us to accept and extend to each other. So rather than taking away its essence by adding words, I would invite you to let grace enter into you and surround your day.
Wishing you a grace filled day,
Sandy
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