Intentional Conversations

Many of you know we have a cable television show called, Healing Conversations. The reason we think the show and this blog are so important, is because people need to have a way to connect with each other to talk about things that are heartfelt and meaningful. Much of our time is spent talking about the tasks of everyday life, often leaving little time for this kind of conversation. But the truth is that we need to connect with others in a deep and profound way. In our busy lives these kind of connections may not happen unless they are made a priority. In the show we talk about the ways people get together just for the purpose of heartfelt conversation. For me it happens in a few different ways. I meet monthly with a group of woman around a topic. We come together and speak what is true for us and in the process learn a great deal about ourselves and our world. Another way is through a friendship I have. My friend and I have met together for 27 years. For 14 of those years we met at 6 AM every Saturday to walk, have coffee and talk... and talk... and talk. For the last 13 years we have just met to talk. I know...it is a long time. Over the years people would ask us if we were still doing it, but no one ever asked us if it was worth it. Most people really wanted to make it happen for themselves; having a person or group to talk to. It was all about the relationship that was being created. We figured how to be in a relationship where it was OK to tell the truth, no matter what. We both learned a lot about ourselves and came to new perspectives and ideas. It was never about trying to fix or change the other person, but just to be heard and to listen. Being present for someone and learning to accept the gift of presence is very powerful.

We would very much like to hear about the ways you come together in meaningful conversation. If you wish you can post a comment on this blog.

Blessings~
Sandy